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Kyle J Parker's avatar

Knowing that people are trying their best reminds me to listen to the pain behind their anger. I cooked for a year at an assisted/independent living facility. The people who had the most complaints about their cooking were the ones who often cried when I would take the knee and listen. They were vulnerable, in a big change in their life, they feared they were going to die in a facility, and they just needed to see that someone cared about them. The thing that brings my heart the most contentment about that year is the huge hole in the knee of the pants I wore to work.

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I was distraught seeing and hearing a woman berate her young daughter in a busy Sam's Club. No one but school cooks should shop at Sam's Club, but lots of us go hoping that if we buy 200 rolls of toilet paper we will save a fortune. The store was really noisy and the little girl had enough. Her mother had even more enough!! I realized I was staring when the woman glared at me. Before she could say anything, I commented on how adorable her child was and that the colors of her outfit looked perfect on her. The mom deflated and teared up. I stepped closer and remarked how hard I found it to take my children food shopping especially in a behemoth store like this one. She told me she couldn't find what she needed and her daughter was so tired... She asked me where the item she needed was and we walked around the store together. She shopped and I played with her daughter while she stayed in the carriage. When we got to the long check out line the three of us chatted until it was her turn. I thanked her and the little girl for their company. The mom gently asked her daughter to throw me a kiss. All three of us were really, really doing our best. I went home to my kids without buying a thing. It was my best trip to Sam's club.

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