Things That Don't Suck

Go Now. Get Born. Live.

On the poetry of my grief, and saying yes.

Sep 8 • 

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Andrea Gibson

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August 2025

I Thought Grief Would Destroy Me

Instead, I Made My Partner Into A God

Aug 21 • 

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Andrea Gibson

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Today Is Andrea’s 50th Birthday

A love letter.

Aug 13 • 

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Andrea Gibson

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Come Back to Me As Lightning

Faith, Doubt, and How Andrea Still Leaves Me Love Notes

Aug 6 • 

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megan falley

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July 2025

Our Last Conversation Was A Song

What Andrea left me on their way out of this world

Jul 31 • 

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megan falley

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Grieving Andrea with the One Who Loved Them Longest

The other girl in Andrea’s bed

Jul 28 • 

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megan falley

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Andrea Was Waiting To Give You This Gift

“When Death Came to Visit”

Jul 24 • 

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megan falley

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A List of Things I Want To Tell Andrea

Now that they know everything

Jul 18 • 

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Andrea Gibson

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Andrea Gibson 8/13/75 – 7/14/25

The poem isn’t over. A letter from their wife, Meg

Jul 17 • 

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June 2025

My Friends Have So Many Issues

The healing power of being needed

Jun 5 • 

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May 2025

The Hardest Winter Of My Life

Writing from the messy middle

May 7 • 

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March 2025

A List of Things I Love

The poetry of everyday

Mar 13 • 

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